What are some popular BDSM toys?
Toys are a fun component of BDSM play. You can use them to enhance role playing, create new sensations, or enhance your sexual experience. Learn more about BDSM toys here.
What styles of submission are there in BDSM?
A submissive has a desire to give up control to a dominant. All submissives have the same desire to engage in a power exchange, but they can express this desire in many ways. Learn more here.
What Types of Gags Are Used in Bondage?
Gags can be used as a form of restraint, humiliation, and as a part of role play. There are three basic categories of gags, with many types of gags within each category. Learn more about gags here!
Tips for BDSM Beginners
Maybe it was Fifty Shades of Gray. Maybe it was the Sleeping Beauty Trilogy. Maybe you've always known you were different, but are just now realizing that there's a word for it. And an exciting unknown world that comes along with it. Whatever your inspiration, you want to start your BDSM journey.
What is BDSM?
What is BDSM? If you ask 10 different people, you will probably get 10 different answers. That's part of the beauty of it. BDSM is many things to many people. The easiest way to think of it is ice cream. Ice cream is the broad term. There are 100's of flavors. They are all ice cream, even though some are very different from each other.
What is some 'must have' equipment for BDSM?
There is a plethora of BDSM equipment that many might argue are "must haves" - and, certain equipment recommendations would depend on whether you are a dom or a sub. However, there are definitely a few that should absolutely be in your arsenal, regardless of your role or level of dedication. Let's take a look at what we think should be some go-to items in your BDSM toolbox.
My story (part one)
I am originally from Russia, Siberia. I have a lot of names: Alexander, Aleksandr, Oleksandr, Sasha, Alex, etc. English is not my native language. Some of the sentences will be awkwardly structured, so be it. I intentionally did not hire a professional writer, so that you could get a true feeling of who I am. I was born in officially the coldest place in the world – Siberia. An average temperature is −5 °C (23 °F) with a lowest record temperature of −71.2 °C (−96.2 °F).
Sometimes I am wondering what inspires me when working with leather. Most likely my childhood memories of Siberian nature. I was absolutely fascinated by it. In general the nature seems a bit color scarce. Once long, long winter fades away, the nature turns into a kaleidoscope that never repeats its combinations. Have you ever seen first March galanthus (commonly known as “ snowdrops”) flowers coming out of snow? There is something very moving and genuine about it. It is an incredible sight. I would give a lot just to recreate this experience.
Snow had at least seven different shades of white. Sound of crispy snow under my feet is another childhood reminiscence that will stay with me for the rest of my life. Snow, snow, snow. It is everywhere. You fall asleep with a few inches of snow outside and wake up next morning with snow piles reaching the 3rd floor. We were digging tunnels in snow, building fortresses and anything else that our imagination would allow us. I remember catching snowflakes of all kinds and shapes. Only Mother Nature is able to create such bizarre combinations. The most sophisticated technology could not be able to reproduce it.
Down in the wooded area there was a small pond. It stayed dark most of the time as giant trees were blocking occasional sunlight. But there were days when strong sun rays got through the trees into the water. Then I could see tiny fish swimming back and forth. Their scales were so bright and shining. I could spend hours simply mesmerized by this view.
Green is the color that you probably see the most as tundra and taiga are covered with forests. All kinds of pine trees are standing like giants protecting the land from civilization. Siberian people like pine trees for its beauty, unusual aroma and sturdy building qualities. When you walk into a pine wood, it feels like you are a part of a Russian fairy tale. It is always dark there. Sun rays can hardly go through thick tree branches. Branches look like giant furry paws that are all covered with needles and cones. As winter approaches cones turn brown and soon open up to release tons of seeds. They, in return, will continue the endless pine life cycle. Human life is nothing in comparison with these green powerful giants that live up to six hundred years. They look down at you trying to understand what this child is doing here, what he is looking for. God forbid you are lost there during winter season. You will freeze to death. Snow will swaddle you with its blanket that will seem comforting and warm at first, but deadly on a long run.